You’ve been everybody to everybody. Who the hell are you these days?
You’ve spent years handling responsibilities and making sure everybody was good. Somewhere along the way, you started wondering what YOU actually want.
What do you like these days? What do you believe? What makes you happy? How much of the life you're living did you actually choose?
At SoulHaus, understanding yourself comes before trying to change yourself. I help you get to know who you are now and make choices that actually feel like yours.
Welcome to SoulHaus. We've got some things to talk about.
Free SoulHaus Reflections
Not sure where to start? Try one of these.
I’ve created three free SoulHaus Reflections for those moments when something feels off, something has changed, or you’re just trying to make sense of what’s going on with you lately.
Pick the one that sounds like you. You don’t need to have everything figured out before you start.
- 01Free
Whose Shit Is This?
A Guide to What Is Actually Yours
Separate what you actually want from the expectations, guilt, roles, and rules you may have been carrying because somebody handed them to you.
- 02Free
The Life-Fits-Me Audit
Before You Blow Anything Up
Find the parts of your life creating the most friction so you know what actually needs your attention instead of trying to fix everything at once.
- 03Free
Wait… Girl, That’s Me.
A Midlife Self-Understanding Check-In
Make sense of why things that used to work suddenly feel harder, louder, heavier, or just wrong.
The 30-Day SoulHaus Experience
The Me Era
30 days of figuring out what you actually like, want, believe, and give a damn about now.
I took the questions, experiences, and changes that helped me get reacquainted with myself and built a 30-day experience to help you do some exploring of your own.
We’re talking about more than journaling. You’ll actually try things, revisit old interests, explore new ones, examine some of the beliefs you’ve been carrying around, and start figuring out what feels like YOU these days.
You don’t have to follow my path. The point is to get curious about yours.
The Me Era
$37
The complete 30-day self-guided experience, including four weekly chapters, guided reflections, personal activities, introductory videos, and the SoulHaus Rediscovery Toolkit.
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The Me Era + Coaching
$97
Introductory Price
Everything included in The Me Era, plus one private 30-minute coaching session with Nalani after you finish. This session is part of the package and separate from a 60-minute SoulHaus Session.
We’ll talk about what you’ve discovered, what surprised you, what you’re still working through, and what you want to do with what you’ve learned.
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You don’t have to know exactly who you’re becoming. That’s part of what we’re going to find out.
Meet Nalani
Hey, I’m Nalani.
I went from stilettos to fly tennis shoes. From flat-ironed hair to locs. Got more tattoos, changed my style, questioned beliefs I’d held for decades, and developed a curiosity about life that I wish I’d explored sooner.
For years, I was the woman who handled things. I built a career in tech, led teams, raised my son, solved problems, and figured shit out when things didn’t go according to plan.
I was really good at being responsible. Eventually, I started wondering who I was outside of all the roles I’d gotten so good at playing.
SoulHaus Session
Got something you want to talk through?
Maybe you’ve got a decision you’ve been going back and forth about. Maybe something in your life doesn’t feel right anymore, but you can’t quite put your finger on why. Maybe you already know what you want to change and need somebody to help you sort through the how.
Whatever it is, bring it.
A SoulHaus Session stands on its own. You don’t need to buy The Me Era first.
We’ll spend an hour talking through what’s happening, what’s important to you, and what you want to do about it. I’m not going to hand you some cookie-cutter advice and send you on your way. We’re going to have a real conversation.
- SoulHaus Session
- Private 1:1 Coaching
- 60 minutes
- $147
SoulHaus offers coaching and educational resources. It is not therapy, does not diagnose or treat mental health conditions, and is not a substitute for care from a licensed clinical professional.
There’s more coming to SoulHaus.
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SoulHaus Circle
Sometimes you want to talk to women who understand what you’re going through without needing a 20-minute explanation first.
SoulHaus Circle is being created for real conversations, shared experiences, new friendships, and the kind of connection that makes you feel like you’ve found your people.
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SoulHaus Homecoming
Think a few days away from the usual responsibilities, spending time with good women, enjoying new experiences, having real conversations, and remembering you have a whole life outside of what everybody needs from you.
SoulHaus Homecoming will be an in-person experience where we get to enjoy some of the things we spend so much time talking about.
Yes, we’re going to have some fun.